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3/28/2007 SheShe may be the face I can't forget The trace of pleasure or regret May be my treasure or the price I have to pay She may be the song the summer sings May be the chill the autumn brings May be a hundred different things Within the measure of a day She may be the beauty or the beast May be the famine or the feast May turn each day into a heaven or a hell She may be the mirror of my dreams The smile reflected in a stream She may not be what she may seem inside her shell She who always seems so happy in a crowd Whose eyes can be so crowded and so proud No one's allowed to see them when they cry She may be the love that cannot hope to last May come to me from shadows of the past But I'll remember till the day I die She may be the reason I survive The why and wherefore I'm alive The one I'll care for through the rough in many years Me, I'll take her laughter and her tears And make them all my souvenirs For where she goes I've got to be The meaning of my life is she She She 3/25/2007 执著听了你献给野老鼠的这首歌。。。丝路。。。让野老鼠感动也很感激你的祝福！野老鼠很想跨出这个圈圈，担又怕被区域千里之外。。。是隔层纱，隔层山，还是隔层会让野老鼠溺毙的海哪？
对感情执著到底好还是不好呢？我不知道，真的。没有一份感情让自己执著的话，就会觉得遗憾，而对感情太过执著，就会受伤，人啊，这么奇怪的动物，怎样都把握不好这个尺度哪？
那丝振动，总是在清晨
弹破空气，带来你的气息 那缕想念，总是在午夜
涌上心尖，捎去我的牵挂
那片真情，总是在指间
萦绕缠绵，洋溢彼此的爱恋
那些话语，总是在嘴角 低声呢喃，倾诉你我的心意 心，刻上了你的名字 话，只对你一个人说 你，我生命中的精灵 我，你心深处的影子 就这样，两个人一份情 一个梦, 牵了两颗心。。。 3/22/2007 生日快乐
谢谢你的祝福及附上了这首《生日快乐》。 这首歌 MV 让女孩不禁流泪了。。。突然间一阵阵的刺痛涌上心头，此刻的心情往下陷！正此时，生日祝福的简讯也传来。。。女孩哭了，是悲是喜，盲然间女孩也分不出了！ 四年前的那一天，正逢女孩生日，女孩放开了一段十四年的感情与男孩分开了，周围的人都替女孩开心，因为男孩深深的伤了女孩。可是女孩不怪男孩，因为彼此曾经快乐相爱过，经历了无数的低潮，让女孩变得更坚强更勇于面对现实，此时的女孩是个快乐的小天使! 庆幸女孩有家人及好友的疼爱及支持，让黑暗的日子充满了希望的阳光！女孩由衷地感激家人，好友的关心与扶持。。。没有再好的言语来表达。。。好想说：“谢谢你们，女孩爱你们”。
3/20/2007 TrustTRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the someone else's character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?" Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river.
You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone else. Trucks can be repaired. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever. Instruction for Life 生活方針Instruction for Life / 生活方針 1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. 3. Follow the three R’s: Respect for self, Respect for other’s and Responsibility for all your actions. 要考慮到，濃情烈愛與豐功偉業都蘊含著極大的風險。 即便失敗了，也別錯過其中的教訓。 遵守三個原則：尊重自己；尊重他人；為個人一切行為負責。 4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. 6. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great relationship. 7. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 別忘了，塞翁失馬，焉知非福。 先弄懂規則，才會知道該如何適切地打破成規。 別讓小小的爭執傷害到深厚的關係。 發現自己犯了錯的時候，立即採取補救措施。 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open arms to change, but don’t let go of your values. 10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 每天花點時間獨處。 擁抱變革，但也要堅守個人價值觀。 請牢記在心，保持緘默有時候是最好的答覆。 生活誠實正直．那麼，老來回首前塵時，就可以重溫生之喜悅。 家中氣氛和諧安樂，即是您這一生的基石。 13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past. 14. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality. 15. Be gentle with the earth. 16. Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before. 和親人意見相左時，請就事論事，別翻舊帳。 和他人分享知識。這是永垂不朽的途徑之一。 善待地球。 每年拜訪一個您從未履足過的地方。 17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. 19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon. 請記住，所謂的最佳關係是指，雙方對彼此的愛凌駕在雙方對彼此的需索之上。 看看您在成功之前必須放棄多少，就足可衡量成功的程度。 愛和烹飪之道即在恣情任性而為。 3/8/2007 My Memorymy memory
抱住你我找回我自己 爱没有痕迹 却是一种重量压痛胸膛 you're far away 抱歉没能保护你 那些无助的孤单几乎放弃的绝望 不在你身旁 恨不得时间能真的倒转 不曾让你悲伤不曾彷徨没有遗憾 给你温柔的手 世界尽头也陪你一起走 i wanna love you forever
希望还来得及 我要用全部生命爱着你 my destiny
我要好好珍惜你 那些漫长的黑夜几乎幻灭的希望 不在你身旁 恨不得时间能真的倒转 不曾让你悲伤不曾彷徨没有遗憾 给你温柔的手 世界尽头也陪你一起走 i wanna love you forever 希望还来得及 我要用全部生命爱着你 3/7/2007 The BrickA young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something. As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown. The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, "What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?" The young boy was apologetic. "Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do," He pleaded. "I threw the brick because no one else would stop..." With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. "It's my brother, "he said "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up." Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me." Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him everything was going to be okay. "Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told the stranger. Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy! push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message: "Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!" God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice to listen or not. 3/3/2007 知足常乐一生中要信的兩种教；證嚴法師说，每个人一生中都要信兩种教，《不计较》 与《不比较》。
人活着都会有许多的欲望，欲望多了，渐渐会欲求不滿，到最后就演便成为了滿足自己的欲望而去伤害別人。
如果我們凡事不与人计较，便不会有口角， 也不会勾心斗角，如果我们凡事不与人比较，便不会有欲望，也不会欲求不滿，因此我们做人要谦虚，要知足，更要惜福。
我們要把自己縮小，不断的缩小自己，小到能將自己放入別人眼中，因为眼裡是容不下一颗沙子的， 倘若能將自己缩小到放入別人眼中，让別人都能接纳你， 这样才是真的会做人，世界这么大，每个人都有他的过人之处， 如果我们不懂得缩小自己，只是一味的觉得自己比別人厉害， 这样永远都不会成功，永远都不会满足，也永远都不快乐。
因为一山比一山高，所以不要去和人家比较，这不是要你因此不求上进哦，是要你懂得谦虚。是要你將心放大，去包容每一個人，从家人、朋友、甚至陌生人。
如果每个人都能有所领悟，都能放宽心，相信都会过得很快乐，因为《知足常乐》。
3/1/2007 约定情感的约定未必一定要人与人的直接面对，更不必是男女直接为了情感而“约定”，还是淡淡的若有若无没什么太大目的性跟功利性的约定比较好吧！ 为了某个约定傻傻的存在于这个虚拟的网络空间里，嘲笑着自己的愚昧与无知，到头来得到的只有那不敢承担的疼痛，在这个时刻却不听大脑的支配，一股股的涌出，苦涩的滋味，那样习惯和麻木会使痛楚更加的简单，可是怎会想到无论多少苦涩都不会改变这滋味。
有人说，快乐其实离我们很近，可是很多人没有把握住。我也没有把握住，但我相信灵魂的深处有一股清澈的泉水，那泉水的滋味是甜的，找到的人会甜在心扉。我也想寻找这泉水来掩盖那心中咸涩，可是我的迷茫的寻找的最后只有失望的继续品尝那心中的咸涩。 结局无法改变，就算以后的时间中偶然的出现我也会蒙住眼睛任由它与我擦肩而过。为了那个约定我苦苦的守侯过，憧憬过，可是这个约定在一瞬间变成了一个没有结果的等候，我守在约定的身边等候约定内容的实现，可是不愿回头的我，只会低头的守侯，而永远不会抬头去望身边路人一眼，也许某个瞬间他会看见那个守侯彼此约定的我，但我永不会抬头，就算不经意的被我发觉，我只会默默继续守侯这约定。 一个约定代表了一份情感的承担的重量，一句那近乎亲人的呼唤代表了一份情感可笑的定义。失去了那份情感，但我愿意永远保留那个约定。 |
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