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3/28/2007 SheShe may be the face I can't forget The trace of pleasure or regret May be my treasure or the price I have to pay She may be the song the summer sings May be the chill the autumn brings May be a hundred different things Within the measure of a day She may be the beauty or the beast May be the famine or the feast May turn each day into a heaven or a hell She may be the mirror of my dreams The smile reflected in a stream She may not be what she may seem inside her shell She who always seems so happy in a crowd Whose eyes can be so crowded and so proud No one's allowed to see them when they cry She may be the love that cannot hope to last May come to me from shadows of the past But I'll remember till the day I die She may be the reason I survive The why and wherefore I'm alive The one I'll care for through the rough in many years Me, I'll take her laughter and her tears And make them all my souvenirs For where she goes I've got to be The meaning of my life is she She She 3/25/2007 执著听了你献给野老鼠的这首歌。。。丝路。。。让野老鼠感动也很感激你的祝福！野老鼠很想跨出这个圈圈，担又怕被区域千里之外。。。是隔层纱，隔层山，还是隔层会让野老鼠溺毙的海哪？
对感情执著到底好还是不好呢？我不知道，真的。没有一份感情让自己执著的话，就会觉得遗憾，而对感情太过执著，就会受伤，人啊，这么奇怪的动物，怎样都把握不好这个尺度哪？
那丝振动，总是在清晨
弹破空气，带来你的气息 那缕想念，总是在午夜
涌上心尖，捎去我的牵挂
那片真情，总是在指间
萦绕缠绵，洋溢彼此的爱恋
那些话语，总是在嘴角 低声呢喃，倾诉你我的心意 心，刻上了你的名字 话，只对你一个人说 你，我生命中的精灵 我，你心深处的影子 就这样，两个人一份情 一个梦, 牵了两颗心。。。 3/22/2007 生日快乐
谢谢你的祝福及附上了这首《生日快乐》。 这首歌 MV 让女孩不禁流泪了。。。突然间一阵阵的刺痛涌上心头，此刻的心情往下陷！正此时，生日祝福的简讯也传来。。。女孩哭了，是悲是喜，盲然间女孩也分不出了！ 四年前的那一天，正逢女孩生日，女孩放开了一段十四年的感情与男孩分开了，周围的人都替女孩开心，因为男孩深深的伤了女孩。可是女孩不怪男孩，因为彼此曾经快乐相爱过，经历了无数的低潮，让女孩变得更坚强更勇于面对现实，此时的女孩是个快乐的小天使! 庆幸女孩有家人及好友的疼爱及支持，让黑暗的日子充满了希望的阳光！女孩由衷地感激家人，好友的关心与扶持。。。没有再好的言语来表达。。。好想说：“谢谢你们，女孩爱你们”。
3/20/2007 TrustTRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."
Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
NO POINTING FINGERS
A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?"
The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the someone else's character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations.
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey?" Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.
Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.
It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river.
You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.
BE PATIENT
This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.
Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.
Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone else. Trucks can be repaired. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever. Instruction for Life 生活方針Instruction for Life / 生活方針 1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. 2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. 3. Follow the three R’s: Respect for self, Respect for other’s and Responsibility for all your actions. 要考慮到，濃情烈愛與豐功偉業都蘊含著極大的風險。 即便失敗了，也別錯過其中的教訓。 遵守三個原則：尊重自己；尊重他人；為個人一切行為負責。 4. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck. 5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. 6. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great relationship. 7. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. 別忘了，塞翁失馬，焉知非福。 先弄懂規則，才會知道該如何適切地打破成規。 別讓小小的爭執傷害到深厚的關係。 發現自己犯了錯的時候，立即採取補救措施。 8. Spend some time alone every day. 9. Open arms to change, but don’t let go of your values. 10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. 11. Live a good, honorable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time. 12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. 每天花點時間獨處。 擁抱變革，但也要堅守個人價值觀。 請牢記在心，保持緘默有時候是最好的答覆。 生活誠實正直．那麼，老來回首前塵時，就可以重溫生之喜悅。 家中氣氛和諧安樂，即是您這一生的基石。 13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past. 14. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality. 15. Be gentle with the earth. 16. Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before. 和親人意見相左時，請就事論事，別翻舊帳。 和他人分享知識。這是永垂不朽的途徑之一。 善待地球。 每年拜訪一個您從未履足過的地方。 17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. 18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. 19. Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon. 請記住，所謂的最佳關係是指，雙方對彼此的愛凌駕在雙方對彼此的需索之上。 看看您在成功之前必須放棄多少，就足可衡量成功的程度。 愛和烹飪之道即在恣情任性而為。 3/8/2007 My Memorymy memory
抱住你我找回我自己 爱没有痕迹 却是一种重量压痛胸膛 you're far away 抱歉没能保护你 那些无助的孤单几乎放弃的绝望 不在你身旁 恨不得时间能真的倒转 不曾让你悲伤不曾彷徨没有遗憾 给你温柔的手 世界尽头也陪你一起走 i wanna love you forever
希望还来得及 我要用全部生命爱着你 my destiny
我要好好珍惜你 那些漫长的黑夜几乎幻灭的希望 不在你身旁 恨不得时间能真的倒转 不曾让你悲伤不曾彷徨没有遗憾 给你温柔的手 世界尽头也陪你一起走 i wanna love you forever 希望还来得及 我要用全部生命爱着你 3/7/2007 The BrickA young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something. As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and backed the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown. The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car shouting, "What was that all about and who are you? Just what the heck are you doing? That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money. Why did you do it?" The young boy was apologetic. "Please, mister...please, I'm sorry but I didn't know what else to do," He pleaded. "I threw the brick because no one else would stop..." With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car. "It's my brother, "he said "He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up." Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me." Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out a linen handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts. A quick look told him everything was going to be okay. "Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told the stranger. Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the boy! push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home. It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door. He kept the dent there to remind him of this message: "Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!" God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us. It's our choice to listen or not. 3/3/2007 知足常乐一生中要信的兩种教；證嚴法師说，每个人一生中都要信兩种教，《不计较》 与《不比较》。
人活着都会有许多的欲望，欲望多了，渐渐会欲求不滿，到最后就演便成为了滿足自己的欲望而去伤害別人。
如果我們凡事不与人计较，便不会有口角， 也不会勾心斗角，如果我们凡事不与人比较，便不会有欲望，也不会欲求不滿，因此我们做人要谦虚，要知足，更要惜福。
我們要把自己縮小，不断的缩小自己，小到能將自己放入別人眼中，因为眼裡是容不下一颗沙子的， 倘若能將自己缩小到放入別人眼中，让別人都能接纳你， 这样才是真的会做人，世界这么大，每个人都有他的过人之处， 如果我们不懂得缩小自己，只是一味的觉得自己比別人厉害， 这样永远都不会成功，永远都不会满足，也永远都不快乐。
因为一山比一山高，所以不要去和人家比较，这不是要你因此不求上进哦，是要你懂得谦虚。是要你將心放大，去包容每一個人，从家人、朋友、甚至陌生人。
如果每个人都能有所领悟，都能放宽心，相信都会过得很快乐，因为《知足常乐》。
3/1/2007 约定情感的约定未必一定要人与人的直接面对，更不必是男女直接为了情感而“约定”，还是淡淡的若有若无没什么太大目的性跟功利性的约定比较好吧！ 为了某个约定傻傻的存在于这个虚拟的网络空间里，嘲笑着自己的愚昧与无知，到头来得到的只有那不敢承担的疼痛，在这个时刻却不听大脑的支配，一股股的涌出，苦涩的滋味，那样习惯和麻木会使痛楚更加的简单，可是怎会想到无论多少苦涩都不会改变这滋味。
有人说，快乐其实离我们很近，可是很多人没有把握住。我也没有把握住，但我相信灵魂的深处有一股清澈的泉水，那泉水的滋味是甜的，找到的人会甜在心扉。我也想寻找这泉水来掩盖那心中咸涩，可是我的迷茫的寻找的最后只有失望的继续品尝那心中的咸涩。 结局无法改变，就算以后的时间中偶然的出现我也会蒙住眼睛任由它与我擦肩而过。为了那个约定我苦苦的守侯过，憧憬过，可是这个约定在一瞬间变成了一个没有结果的等候，我守在约定的身边等候约定内容的实现，可是不愿回头的我，只会低头的守侯，而永远不会抬头去望身边路人一眼，也许某个瞬间他会看见那个守侯彼此约定的我，但我永不会抬头，就算不经意的被我发觉，我只会默默继续守侯这约定。 一个约定代表了一份情感的承担的重量，一句那近乎亲人的呼唤代表了一份情感可笑的定义。失去了那份情感，但我愿意永远保留那个约定。 2/22/2007 网上相亲网上相亲的第一眼多半会失败。一个人的才华在很短的时间内是不可能完全展现的，因此多一点时间与对方相处，是给他人一个机会，也是给自己的一次机会。 人们生活丰足，需求繁多, 都忙得不亦乐乎。感情，也是现代生活中不可缺少的最重要的需求。人是感情的动物，情是人生很重要的一部分。可以说，人生的乐趣不在别处，只在真挚的情感之中。尽管我们相识的人越来越多，可是，谁有工夫听你倾诉心曲？谁有闲心管你的心灵需要？谁能接受你的心灵相托，谁能成为你的情感相依？是熟悉的地方没风景吗？是怕离生活太近惹些不必要的麻烦吗？是找不到能敞开心扉的对方吗? 似乎都是，又不完全是。网络，能找到心灵的慰藉，能找到情感相依的人吗？网络世界是虚渺的，又是真实的；是虚幻的，又是具象的，这就正好填补了生活的缺憾和不足。而且，在虚拟的世界后面，同样有一颗真实的心，一颗火热的心，一颗寂寞的心。网络世界又是博大的，浩渺的，在这个无限的世界里，可以倾诉，可以聆听，可以守候，可以寻找，可以捕捉，可以无意识、无目标地去搜寻另一颗相近、相似、又象流星般一闪即逝的心灵。网络，把一颗寂寞的心，牵向一个广阔的世界，让一颗心寻找到另一颗心，一颗心去温暖另一颗心，一颗心依傍着另一颗心，一颗心紧紧吸引着另一颗心。 网络上要想遇一个相投相知相契的，却很不容易，遇到了，是一种福份，是一种机缘，心灵深处立即迸发耀眼的火花，那是一种最高的享受。见面了，结果会怎么样？我们可作如此想象——网上相交，已是心心相映，情情相慕，意意相牵。多少个不眠之夜，想的是对方；多少个梦中萦回，系的是对方；多少次心海波澜，思的是对方；多少……今天终于相见了。站在你面前的是一个庄严中透着飘逸，潇洒中漾溢着高贵的气质，谈吐中更是幽静、机智、深刻、犀利，无不显现出博学多才。 两个人呆了、痴了、傻了。似曾相识，又不曾相识，一阵阵激浪在心海中撞击，必陷于深深的痛苦， 相见而不能圆梦，是一种伤痛，但毕竟是美的。而相见后，消失了心中的虹霓，则是一种沉重的失落，另一种痛苦和悲哀。 生的过程，其实就是寻找的过程。如果终生没有找到需要的对方，那么他都不知道自己曾经寻找过，也不知道自己需要什么；只有一旦找到了，才惊然憬悟：这就是我生命所需、心灵所求、情感所系啊！现在终于找到了，却不能拥有，那又是多么的痛苦！ 有人说，每个人在一生中，都或早或迟会遇到一个你最心爱的人，你最动情的人，可是，谁又能用一生的时光去等待那个人的到来？即使你用心等待，对方也在等待吗？如果有一方不在等待，即使相遇了，又怎能如愿呢？ 浪漫的邂逅、一见钟情的爱情，人人都曾憧憬，并不是每个人都能遇到。当爱情姗姗来迟时，与其一个人苦苦寻觅，不如借助更多其他的途径寻找。网上相亲，用传统的方式，演绎着现代的爱情，也许会比自由恋爱少了一点浪漫，但一种形式自会有它的美好。 相亲过程中，会不会有爱情并最终走向婚姻，并不重要。以好的心态对待自己的生活，每一刻都会是崭新的。快乐、和谐、幸福的生活，是每一个人心中的理想。幸福，就握在自己的手中。 有时想一想，单生也何尝不是坏事！不过。。。我还是向往拥有爱情，孩子，温暖的家。。。的生活。。。哈哈！ 1/31/2007 What is Falling in Love?What really happens when two people experience "falling in love", and is this true love? Believe it or not, I very convincingly explains that falling in love, or infatuation, is not true love. Nobody can deny that when we fall in love with someone, the emotions we experience are very intense, and we feel wonderful and very happy. However, there are several problems with falling in love, that reveal it is not true love. First, falling in love almost always involves sexual desires. In contrast, through true love our purpose in loving is the other person's spiritual and personal growth, and satisfying our own sexual desires has little to do with the other's spiritual growth. People do not fall in love or become infatuated with their children, parents, brothers and sisters, although we can love them very deeply. Second, the feelings associated with falling in love are usually temporary. The ecstatic feeling of being in love eventually passes. True love is permanent and should last a lifetime. Third, the experience of falling in love is in reality a collapse of a portion of what psychiatrists call our ego boundaries. Ego boundaries normally protect us from getting too emotionally close to too many people. When our ego boundaries collapse and we fall in love with someone, we feel very close and intimate with that person. We feel positive and happy all the time. We feel like anything is possible, that there are no limits to what we can do together. We feel we can overcome all obstacles and we will live in a state of bliss forever. But this is not reality! Eventually, when lovers begin to have minor disagreements, or when the attractiveness that brought them together looses its appeal, they begin to realize that they will not live in bliss forever, and they begin to fall out of love. When they find themselves no longer in love, they can either end the relationship, or begin the work of building real, true love. True and lasting love sometimes can have its beginnings in an experience of falling in love. Since falling in love involves a collapse of your ego boundaries and limits, you are not making effort to extend them. Real loving requires you to extend your limitations, expand your ego boundaries, and grow spiritually, all of which take effort and may be difficult and a challenge to accomplish... Will the other party share the same thought as you... i felt uncertain... perhaps i shall wait for the day to come... 1/9/2007 想突然想起你
才发现你还在我脑海中 想想过去 想想你的样子 想想大家嘻嘻哈哈的情景 遗忘似乎比想象中的难 但愿彼此每天都能幸福快乐 直到永远… 偶尔把房里的窗口打开,
去感受那凉丝丝的风~
虽然我无法时常联络你, 但我会将我的祝福通过风~传送给你
如果有风围绕着你, 那就是我给你的祝福了… 12/30/2006 How Do You Measure Happiness?How Do You Measure Happiness?
Happiness is something that most people are concerned about and want. Athenian philosopher Aristotle once said that "Happiness is the end for which human beings are designed." But, it seems that many people are confused about happiness. Sure, we know that it's important, but it's surprising how many people are not happy and how many are looking for happiness in the wrong places. Some of us think the more we have the happier we'll be. Think about the times in your life when you bought something because you thought it would make you happy. How long did the joy last? On hindsight, was it really worth the effort and money? There is so much pressure in our culture to buy and to have. But there is a rude awakening to actually attaining the things that you think will make you happy. It is often so disappointing. How many times have you wanted something, only to find once you had it, it didn't give you the joy and happiness that you expected? Someone else cannot make you happy. One of the myths of our society is that finding the perfect mate will bring perfect happiness. However, people who depend on others for their personal happiness are often bitterly disappointed. True happiness comes from knowing yourself, your values, and what you like to do, not from someone else knowing these things about you. We also have to understand that happiness is not guaranteed. It is not a right. If we can fully understand this truth, then we'll cherish happiness more when it comes, and grieve less when it goes.
Questions about human happiness are not new; they have been asked throughout time. But no one else can really tell you how to find happiness. Also, what makes you happy changes with time. In reality happiness is a personal thing with as many varieties as there are individuals.
The bottom line is that we are all experts on our own personal happiness, no one else holds the key or the answers to it. I would like to end this programme by sharing a statement by Robert Louis Stevenson:
"Make the best of your circumstances, No one has everything and everyone has something of sorrow intermingled with the gladness of life. The trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears. Don't take yourself too seriously. You can't please everybody; don't let your neighbours set your standards, do the things you enjoy doing, but stay out of debt.
Don't borrow trouble. Imaginary things are harder to bear than the actual ones. Since hate poisons the soul, do not cherish enmities, grudges. Don't hold post-mortems. Don't spend your life brooding over sorrow and mistakes. Don't be one who never gets over things. Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself.
Keep busy at something. A very busy person never has time to be unhappy." 12/20/2006 Somtimes...Sometimes...
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.
You never know who these people may be but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first, but in reflection you find that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who affect your life, and the success and downfalls your experience, help to create who you are and who you become.
Even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open your heart.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because in a way, they are teaching you to love and how to open your heart and eyes to things.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything that you possibly can for you may never be able to experience it again.
Talk to people that you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free, and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to.
Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, it will be hard for others to believe in you.
You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it with absolutely no regrets.
Most importantly, if you love someone, let him go, for if he likes you, he will return.
Learn a lesson in life each day you live... live to the fullest with no regrets! 12/19/2006 世界上最远的距离***************************************
世界上最远的距离
不是 生与死
而是 我就站在你的面前你却不知道我喜欢你
世界上最远的距离
不是 我就站在你的面前你却不知道我喜欢你
而是 明知道彼此喜欢 却不能在一起
世界上最远的距离
不是 明知道彼此喜欢 却不能在一起
而是 明明无法抵抗这股思念
却还的故意装作丝毫不把你放在心里
世界上最远的距离
不是 明明无法抵抗这股思念
却还的故意装作丝毫不把你放在心里
而是 用自己冷漠的心 对你喜欢的人
掘了一条无法跨却的深渠
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